Confession: I’m dating a “non-reader”

“I don’t like to read.”

These words slipped off the tongue of my date as he sat across from me digging into a burger. I could’ve excused myself to the bathroom then slipped out the restaurant’s back door. Instead, I sat, paralyzed by his open admission.

Does he not realize I teach English? My quaint dreams of cozy dates at used book shops and Sunday mornings curled around novels dissipated. I couldn’t possibly share my life with a non-reader. I spent months fostering a love for literature in my students. I handpicked books for my teens, stocked my shelves with the latest releases, and inhaled literature in my free time. Dating a non-reader was like sleeping with the enemy.

The date was dead.

Or so I thought.

Two years later, we are still together, and Eric has proven to be one of my most valuable assets in understanding self-identified non-readers. Just as I had pigeon-holed Eric into an archetype of resistant male readers, he had categorized me into the antiquated outline of his high school English teachers—the ones who made him hate reading in the first place.

Eric’s teachers were staunch traditionalists. They assigned classics then tested, quizzed, and sucked any joy or personal exploration out of the books, leaving a pulpy mess of literary repulsion. Eric didn’t identify as a reader because his teachers had given him every reason to not identify as one: he struggled with literary analysis and didn’t enjoy fiction. Like many of my students, he skated through English relying on online cheat sheets to get around reading the required books.

This same resistance to identify as a reader plagues many students who step into my classroom. They have fixed perceptions of what a reader is or should be— a person who reads fast, favors classics and fiction, and enjoys literary analysis. Self-identified non-readers see no room in reading for personal growth, gratification, interest, exploration, and pleasure. Ultimately, they see no room for who they are as a person when they recognize that the only celebrated books within English classrooms are those that fit a set standard of literary merit.

Eric's "to read" shelf

Eric is drawn to informational books. Here are some of the books on his “to read” shelf.

Eric was a self-identified non-reader simply because he did not favor traditional literary classics that his teachers drilled in high school. Yet when I first met him, he voraciously read online articles. Gradually he found his niche in books that dealt with scientific theories and particle physics. Recently, Eric completed The Quantum Story: A History in 40 Moments by Jim Baggott, a 410 page book, and he is halfway through A Short History of Nearly Everything by Bill Bryson, which is 478 pages. Furthermore, he listens to audiobooks on his commute to and from work and our bookshelves are packed with volumes on his to-read list, including On the Origin of Species by Charles Darwin and Discoveries and Opinions of Galileo.

If Eric is a “non-reader,” he is exactly the type of student I want in my classroom—the type who has a personal, vested interest in his or her reading and seeks to learn from the material. Gradually, I

Trevor's Reading

Trevor poses with his stack of books read throughout the year.

have come to find Eric’s reading patterns in my own students. Trevor who hated reading found his niche amongst non-fiction books like Ghost Soldiers by Hampton Sides and Into the Wild by Jon Krakauer while Ben, who was rarely interested in whole class reads, challenged himself with diverse genres ranging from science (Stiff by Mary Roach and The Double Helix by James D. Watson) to historical fiction (The Book Thief by Markus Zusak). These students need the time and space to not only figure out how to define themselves as readers but to also establish a sustainable reading pattern.

By definition, readers are individuals who “look at and understand the meaning of letters, words, symbols, etc.” (Merriam-Webster Dictionary). Thus, as long as a student can read, they are readers—classics, fiction, and stereotypes aside. But as English teachers, we must not only show them that this is the case, but also we must help them to foster reading lives that reach beyond the classroom. A generation

of apathetic teen readers doesn’t have to lead to a generation of

Ben's reading

Ben with this stack of twelve books.

apathetic adult readers.

This past weekend while winding the back roads of a coastal Maine town, Eric and I spotted a library book sale. I would usually be the one to erratically swerve to the side of the road and park on a sidewalk if it meant gathering additional books for my classroom library, but this time, it was Eric. As I sorted through the stacks of books, I looked up to find Eric with a stack equal to my own. This was exactly the type of person I could spend my life with.


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8 thoughts on “Confession: I’m dating a “non-reader”

  1. […] Teachers Talk has a valuable post on what self-identification as a non-reader really means. (Hint: it doesn’t always mean […]


  2. patricia delzell August 7, 2014 at 1:23 pm Reply

    Jackie! I love this! Most of my students come to me as non-readers. They seem to be battle survivors. I did my final Linda Rief project on “My Students and PTSD.” Keep writing!


    • Erika B. August 12, 2014 at 12:11 pm Reply


      I am intrigued by the work you did with your project. Dr. Jeff Duncan-Andrade (check him out) does a lot of work wrapped around that. If you are willing to share, I’d love to see/read your project as much of my urban student population suffer from the same disorder. Feel free to forward it to:



  3. Erika B. August 6, 2014 at 11:45 am Reply

    Catcher, thank you for this post. I think true passion exudes from educators when we are naturally looking for our reading and writing lives to infuse with other elements of our lives. And wow, how you captured that! Students are so lucking to be reading and writing beside you as you innately understand the ‘undoing’ that needs to take place in order for students to start fresh with a healthy perception of what reading actually is. And kudos to Eric for taking on pieces that, quite frankly, intimidate me! Happy reading, friend!


  4. jackiecatcher August 6, 2014 at 9:04 am Reply

    Amy, I love how you asked them that question directly–I think there is so much value to coming up with individual and personal definitions of what a reader is instead of force-feeding students a canned concept. Eric said that he finally felt like his choice in reading wasn’t being judged based on its literary merit. Our students should feel empowered, not judged, by their choices.


  5. amyrasmussen August 6, 2014 at 8:55 am Reply

    Jackie, this is such a great reminder of why it is so important to know each student as an individual. We must talk and discuss interests, likes, dislikes, and we must have patience as we help students come to realize what it means to be a reader. Recently, I read through a google form/survey I had students complete at the beginning of the year. One question asked them to define a reader. You are spot on in this post. Most students do not understand what it means to be a reader. It is sad that in many cases English classes have done this to them.


  6. jackiecatcher August 6, 2014 at 8:28 am Reply

    I love your enthusiasm Shana…although I hope your phone is okay! Thank you for your kind words 🙂 I’m so lucky to have people like you who inspire me.


  7. shanakarnes August 6, 2014 at 8:12 am Reply

    I adore this post! I actually got so excited while reading it that I dropped my phone into my cup of coffee. So, I’m writing this comment now on my computer. 🙂

    I love that you are learning from Eric about how to better reach your reluctant readers. It really shows that you find inspiration for your teaching craft in all areas of your life. You are an amazing teacher, and your students AND Eric are lucky to have you!!


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